Korean Proverb Series 36
The Arm Bends Inward
“팔은 안으로 굽는다”
(Pareun aneuro gupneunda)
🕰️ 1. The Proverb’s Core Meaning
The Korean proverb “팔은 안으로 굽는다” literally means
“The arm bends inward.”
It expresses the idea that people naturally favor their own side —
family, friends, or those they feel close to —
even when fairness might demand otherwise.
This saying reveals a realistic understanding of human nature:
no matter how objective we try to be, personal ties often influence our judgment.
🪄 2. Meaning & Key Lesson
▪️ Humans are emotional beings; complete objectivity is rare.
▪️ Affection and loyalty can cloud fairness.
▪️ Recognizing this bias is the first step toward true justice and empathy.
The proverb teaches us to acknowledge our partiality —
and strive for fairness beyond personal feelings.
👀 3. Real-Life Applications
▪️ A manager may unconsciously favor a long-time colleague.
▪️ A parent might defend their child even when the child is wrong.
▪️ A friend may side with another friend out of loyalty, not logic.
By being aware of this tendency, we can practice fairness rooted in understanding, not favoritism.
🌏 4. Similar Proverbs Around the World
▪️ United States — “Blood is thicker than water.”
→ Family bonds are stronger than other relationships.
▪️ United Kingdom — “Charity begins at home.”
→ People first care for those closest to them.
▪️ China — “胳膊肘朝里拐 (Gēbo zhǒu cháo lǐ guǎi).”
→ “The elbow bends inward.” — almost identical to the Korean version.
▪️ France — “Chacun voit midi à sa porte.”
→ “Everyone sees noon at their own door.” (People judge from their own perspective.)
Though expressed differently, many cultures recognize this universal truth —
human nature leans toward one’s own.
💬 A Warm Saying
“Fairness begins
when we learn to see beyond our own circle.”
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